Random Relationship Advice From Lady Hitch (:

To be honest I've been so reluctant to date or even meet new guys these days.

Its just too hard to meet someone who can be genuine, sweet, funny , and nice, WITHOUT an alterieor motive.

I mean the way these guys treat ladies these days is damn near ridiciulous. I mean girls aren't innocent either, they can really screw someone over too. But the thing is you can't go out expecting to meet a perfect mate without putting any work into it. The main focus in a relationship these days is sex, and that sucks for the younger generation i mean if your going to indulge  its going to happen but the main focus on a relationship should be intamacy and there are plenty of ways to share intamite moments without having erm... "sexy time". Scroobius Pip said it best when he said "There are plenty of ways to have some fun without impregnation" adding to that if you want a succsessful relationship take the focus off of sex and put it into something better that can better yourslef and your partner.

I guess I'm just very turned off when everyone just treats everyone else as if they're diposable because people are not disposable.

Not only that but i feel like the perfect person is going to come out of nowhere. someone who isn't repulsed by my love of elves, wolves, DeadSpace, Lord Of The Rings, Paranormal stuff, and well all the nerdy stuff i'm into. *sigh* if such a person exists lol.

But I can't be too closed off for every nerd girl in disguise  there is one nerd boy waiting to play video games and read comics and talk about books with.

MAIN POINT!!! I don't need someoneto make me happy. I'm proud to say that I'm perfectly content in my life and with myself *giving herself hugs* but when that person comes around i want to accept him with open arms. I want the next person i get serious with to be the last person i get serious with.

MAIN POINT #2 You have to work on yourself before you can work on a relationship with someone else. Until then have fun life isn't about how many people you kiss *wish i could go back in time and tell younger lauren nichole that!* its about having fun with friends. When the time is right you will meet that amazing special someone who will always be there for you *please God soon lol*.

I guess i just want to reassure all other nerd girls in waiting that yes there is a boy for you. And yes you are allowed to not want to be with someone being single is rewardin and nothing to be ashamed of.

Don't let a stupid boy ruin your golden years,


LOVE ALWAYS

Lauren Nichole

Last Year In Cali

So if everything goes my way, this is my last year in California. Hopefully by Feburary I'll be safe and sound in Pennsylvania. The thing is that I haven't done much exploring since i turned 18 and i feel like i need to do some serious exploring of the california wilderness/strange places/ abandoned bulidings before i go to many miles away!!! Anyone know any good places?