Wednesday, January 11, 2012

No One Knows Best But YOU



Lately I've been hearing a lot of advice, or having people order me around on what to do in life.

I really just want to look these crazy unsolicited advice peddlers straight in the eyes and say:


It's not that I don't like advice or suggestions, in fact, I welcome them.

HOWEVER....


I will get upset when someone is sitting there telling me i am doing "bad things" and "ruining my life" over things that don't matter.

For example, maybe i didn't want to study business, i mean i had enough of that BS in high school and honestly the thought of sitting through a business management class makes me hyperventilate. So me being who i am chooses to go into makeup and study history.

I DON'T LIKE HEARING HOW THIS DECISION IS GOING TO RUIN MY CHANCES AT BECOMING RICH AND FAMOUS AND SUCCESSFUL BECAUSE GUESS WHAT???

MONEY ISN'T EVERYTHING PEOPLE!!!

Another thing i love is when it comes to things people give suggestions about things they know nothing about like if you were to say  "i want to do/go/see/become/ _________" and someone will reply  " oh well i heard that this girls, mothers, best friends, hairdressers, boyfriends, cousins, mother-in-law once did ____ and died/hated it/ never spoke again"

OK so maybe I'm exagerating now but at least you get my point, well my two points.

#1. Unsolicited advice, however helpful one ,may think it is, is never welcome or helpful. All it does is keep people from doing things that could be amazing for them, which leads me to my next point

#2. Never let someone get in between you and your dreams, nothing is ever out of reach. Honestly, no matter how big your plans for the future are never lose sight of them never ever ever!!! (unless your plans are to become a serial killer then please choose something else). Anyways your dreams are the number one thing in life and nobody can tell you what is good for you other then yourself! Can i put more emphasis on that?

Ever get any crazy unwanted advice? Got dreams and big plans for the future? Blow off some steam and comment below (:

Much Love & Until Next Time
                             - Lauren ♥

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